Saturday, February 16, 2013


Valentine’s Day

 

 

Somewhere in time, approximately fifteen hundred and seventeen years ago, Pope Gelasius marked February 14th as the day to commemorate the life of Saint Valentine.  The man came to be known as Saint Valentine, was a priest that violated an ordered issued by the Emperor Claudius II.  The order was that young people were forbidden to get married.  I read that one reason he issued this order to was to keep young soldiers single. They fought better without wives or children to worry about in his mind.  Valentine violated the order and married young couples anyway. 

Valentine was arrested and put in prison.  He was beaten and finally beheaded.  He died on February 14th. 

I don’t know how the day morphed into what we celebrate now.  It does make sense that Valentine was about love, the kind of love celebrated by two people, but he died for his Christian faith. His faith led him to violate the law by marrying people against the Emperors order.  The day was set to remember a martyr. 

One thing I read, said when Valentine was in prison, the Emperor Claudius liked to talk to him.  His big mistake was trying to convert Claudius to Christianity.  This is what eventually resulted in his death.

When the Bible was translated from Greek into English, they ran into a little problem with the word love.  The Greeks had several words for love and in English we only have one. 

There is “philio” love, which is the love of friends.  There is “storge” love, which is the love of family.  There is “eros” love which is the love associated with sexual attraction and finally “Agape” love which is the supernatural love, the love that goes beyond natural affection.

We tend to base our celebration on “eros” as the focus of love is on our sweetheart or spouse.  We even celebrate a little “philio” love when we celebrate with friends.  As kids, we sometimes would give Valentine cards to every person in our school classroom; this is “philio” love.

On this holiday we don’t necessarily celebrate “Agape” love.  I think this is sad.  Agape love is the strongest and the best kind of love.  We don’t have to earn it.  We don’t deserve it but sometimes we still receive it.  God gives us agape love.  Saint Valentine showed agape love to the young people he helped marry and died because of it. 

Consider this:

John 15:13 “Greater love has no one than this, that he lay down his life for his friends.”

That is the type of love we should celebrate on February 14th.  This is what Valentine did for the young couples he married.  This is what Christ did for each one of us when he died on the cross. 

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