Saturday, January 5, 2013


Forgiveness

 

 

Somewhere in time, May 27th 2001, Martin and Gracia Burnham went out to dinner to celebrate their 18th wedding anniversary.  They had been in the Philippines for seventeen years working for New Tribe Missions.  Martin was a pilot that took supplies out to the remote areas of the jungle and he moved medical patients from the jungle into the city to get the help they needed.  The day started out like any other, if only they had known.

The Abu Sayyaf is a militant group in the Philippines. They decided on this same evening to kidnap a group of people from a local island resort.  In this group of people were Martin and Gracia.  This would begin a period of captivity that would last for 376 days.

From November of 2001, all other hostages had either been killed or set free, only Martin and Gracia remained.  What about their kids? They had kissed three children goodbye with the expectation of seeing them again in a few hours, only to be held away for months on end.  They marched through the jungle day after day. Some days they would have food, others they would try eating leaves off the trees to keep up their strength. Praying to God for water and hope, they waited for rescue.  Hope waned as the days drug one into the other and they wondered if they would even survive. 

They had been marching through the jungle for ten days. No food, little water and less rest. The government forces were pursuing the Abu Sayyaf.  The Burnham’s hoped to live to see their rescue, a chance to hold their children and chance to eat and sleep without fear.  The government forces were close and a gun battle erupted, the Burnham’s were caught in the middle.  Weak and exhausted, they tried to flee.  Both were taken down by a bullet.  Would their captivity end in death?  Would they never see their family this side of heaven?  They had questions and no answers.

When the fight ended, Martin had gone home to heaven and Gracia was left alone to return to her family.  The day so long ago that had started out as a celebration, finally ended. It ended over a year later with tragedy.

I was watching news videos online and I saw a video about Gracia Burnham.  I remembered hearing about and praying for them when they were captured and when she was rescued alone.  I clicked on the video and I was surprised to hear her say, she had prayed that God would help her forgive her captors.

I don’t think that would be my first thought.  Gracia asked to forgive, even after so many days of captivity.  So many days suffering with her husband, only to be rescued alone, she prayed to be able to forgive.

Matthew 18:21-22 “The Peter came to Him and said, “Lord, how often shall my brother sin against me and I forgive him?  Up to seven times?” Jesus said to him, “I do no say to you, up to seven times, but up to seventy times seven.”” 

Personally, I think God wants us to forgive so many times because he knows even when we forgive with all our hearts, there will be times when the hurt will assail us again and then we will need to remember to forgive, again.

Gracia Burnham has a website, if you want to check out her story for yourself.  www.graciaburnham.org

In the interview I was watching, Gracia shared that four of her captors have come to Christ.  I’m sure, that offering them forgiveness paved the way for that decision.

Matthew West - Forgiveness (Official Lyric Video) from matthew-west on GodTube.

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